CD17 – Still No Progress :(

Had another ultrasound this morning – and more disappointment. After two weeks of birth control the dratted follicle remnant is BIGGER, not smaller. UGH. So I’m staying on the birth control for now. They took more blood, and after they get the results back this afternoon they’ll call to tell me how long to stay on the birth control for and whether they’re going to change my birth control brand to something else.

Not only was this disappointing news, but the poor bloodwork tech had to stick me twice in order to get the blood she needed… and the first time she was digging around in my arm with the needle for a while before conceding defeat and going after the other arm instead. So not a very happy way to start the morning. Kind of depressing, actually.

I just keep reminding myself that this means no Christmastime baby. I did the math and would have to wait until April 10^th to conceive in order to have an EDD of January 1^st or later. So I’m trying to see that as a bright side, but it’s really hard. The last two weeks of birth control have felt longer than any TWW thus far… and now I’m going to have more to look forward to, before we get to try again. At least we’re not wasting expensive swimmers. But I am increasingly bummed that we missed February’s ovulation. We’re sitting out two months now. So frustrated.

In the meantime, the SCA event over the weekend was very successful. My apprentice sister Liepa was in charge of preparing the feast, which was – and I am not kidding – a work of ART. Seriously. The platters of food just kept going out – fish and turkey and chicken and rabbit, sausage and lamb and beef (and beef heart) – and all of them with an appropriate side dish of some sort. It was unbelievable. I got to help serve the food, which I haven’t ever done before, and actually had a really good time with it. I also got to wear my new wool dress, which my Laurel approved of (YAY!) and wear my goofy fur bonnet and dressed my dog in a little copy of my dress. Kaitlin ran the fencing tournament and provided dramatic announcements throughout the feast to explain to folks what they were eating… overall a great event, though I was exhausted by the end ( I can’t even IMAGINE how tired Liepa must have been, sheesh!!)

As soon as we left the event we stopped at my mom’s house and dropped Cricket off. She had to stay with my mom for two days, so that my mom could take her to the spay clinic on Monday. On Sunday my mom texted me the funniest sad picture of her, with her huge ears all folded back mournfully, hanging out in her little kennel and refusing to come out. :P The surgery went well on Monday, and they were able to pull her baby teeth too. She got a little tattoo of an “S” to mark her as spayed, and they gave her pain meds and antibiotics. They also said she had pyometria when they went in there – that’s a potentially very dangerous infection of the uterus. I guess it’s unusual in dogs her age, and the procedure cost an extra $20 as a result, but I was really thankful we were able to do her spay NOW so that she didn’t get really sick later.  I guess that’s another silver lining to all our TTC problems – the only reason I could spay her this month was because we weren’t paying for TTC.

Anyway, I fretted about her all throughout work on Monday, left work as early as possible and drove down to my mom’s to get her. Poor little thing was exhausted, but so so happy to see me, and as soon as I got her home she completely zonked out while cuddling me. She’s having to spend the days in her cage at home to be sure she doesn’t pull her stitches out by jumping on things while we’re not home… which I know must be very boring. Hopefully she’ll nap through most of it and heal quickly.

So anyway, that’s where we’re at now. Waiting to see what the doctor wants to do about the birth control, waiting for Cricket to heal up, and planning for yet another SCA event this weekend – it’s my favorite one of the year, so I’m looking forward to it.

Here’s hoping this round of birth control gets this stupid whatever-it-is under control finally. SIGH.

CD13 – Four more days of birth control left

I’ve been quiet on the blog this week because there hasn’t really been much to report on the TTC front. I’ve taken my birth control *grumble* faithfully, and there are four more days left now… my next ultrasound appointment is on Wednesday. I am PRAYING that it turns out well, that they tell me I can stop taking the birth control, and that AF returns right away. But somehow I suspect I’ll be waiting out a luteal phase before AF comes back. I’m really not thinking we’ll be able to make an attempt until April.

If we hadn’t had to do the birth control, we would have been able to do an IUI yesterday/today-ish. SIGH.

In the meantime, I finished my dress for the SCA event this weekend, and even had enough time to make a matching dress for my tiny dog. (Yes, I am that much of a dork. In my defense, though, she gets cold very easily because she has no fur, and this event is going to be COLD – it’s in a barn, and the temperature’s not supposed to even break 50 degrees. She’ll need a nice warm wool dress…) This week has been filled with preparations for the event – trips to the thrift stores near my house in search of decent feast gear, trips to the grocery store for snacks and lunch foods Kaitlin will eat (she’s picky), last-minute sewing bits, laundering and ironing my smock, making packing lists, and because my dog’s spay surgery is on Monday, making preparations to drop her off at my mom’s house down in Pueblo right after the event.

I’ll be without my little Cricket all day Sunday and Monday. I’m leaving work early on Monday, in fact, in order to drive back down to Pueblo and bring her home. I will seriously miss her, even for just a couple days. Since we don't have a baby to focus on right now, she gets all of my cute-little-creature attention. ;)

So that’s the exciting stuff going on in our lives lately. That, and waiting for the ultrasound next week. And researching bobbin lacemaking, which may be another little hobby I’ll pick up, as it looks like a fun, portable, useful little craft project…

CD5 – Oh, Birth Control

So I am dutifully taking my birth control every day, though a part of me grumbles every time I swallow one. Though I know it’s supposed to help me get pregnant in the long run, it feels so darned counter-productive to be taking birth control when what I want is to get pregnant. Pfffffft. At least the b/c pills were free!

Two weeks seems like an eternity away. Gah.

In the meantime, we have a friend who wants to go out dancing tonight. I’m torn on that. While it sounds like it could be fun, I am also tired. Guess I really am a grown up now, when a night spent at home sounds more appealing than a night out dancing. :P Guess we’ll see how we feel when we get home from work. On the plus side, I’m working a 7-4 shift today, and I actually have already completed all of the work on today’s task list, so I get to go home in about 45 minutes AND get to spend that time working on a wish-list project instead of a must-do project. Feels like a gift. ;) 

CD3 - Disappointed again

Got the call from the doctor. Since I’m not pregnant (no surprise there) they are starting me on birth control for two weeks. I go back in for an ultrasound on the 19^th to see if the follicles have shrunk.

Here’s where things get confusing. She said I might start bleeding as soon as I stop the birth control. If so, they’ll count that as the start of a new cycle and begin the whole Clomid/trigger/IUI process again. If not, it sounds like I have to wait for AF to show up again before we get to TTC.  And, if the ultrasound shows that the follicles are still too big, I have to stay on the birth control for another week and check again with another ultrasound before we can proceed.

What all of this amounts to is that it’s likely to be at least four more weeks before we get to do another IUI. Meaning that there will definitely be no 2014 baby :(  January 2015 is the earliest due date we can hope for.

Trying not to be too disappointed. After all, last month’s missed cycle meant I got new tires on my car, and this month’s missed/delayed cycle will mean a non-December birthdate (and possibly some money for savings if we don’t have TTC costs until April.) Originally Kaitlin and I had even talked about skipping this cycle on purpose so as not to inflict a December birthday on our kiddo. So this may just be the universe’s way of giving us the child we’re meant to have… But even staring hard at the silver lining can’t quite take away the gloom of the cloud at this particular moment. SIGH. I am SO not a patient person, and more waiting is just so frustrating.

I will try to just be grateful that my medical insurance is covering the cost of the ultrasounds. If I were paying for those out of pocket they’d be $250ish each. And at least we’re not blindly wasting vials of swimmers, since the RE is able to do the ultrasounds and see what’s really going on in there.

I’ll go by the pharmacy tonight and pick up the birth control pills, and I guess we’ll see what happens from there…

CD2, Part Deux

Just got the call from my RE’s office. My estrogen is elevated. Apparently this means I do have leftover follicles from last cycle, which is not good, so the doc has to put me on birth control for a while. I am hoping it doesn’t mean we can’t TTC this cycle – I will cry. ;.;

But I won’t have more details until tomorrow, because apparently they have to do a pregnancy test first. The nurse was trying, bless her heart, to be optimistic about the possibility of pregnancy, but we didn’t do an insemination last cycle AND I am currently on my second day of a very normal-looking period… so no. Still, she said they had to rule it out before they could prescribe the birth control, so I’m waiting for a call back tomorrow with further instructions. Looks like I may not be taking the Clomid at all this round.

Sigh.

Who would have thought that getting pregnant would be so complicated? I’m particularly frustrated because we’re into our third month now and we’ve only gotten to TTC once.

I know a lot of couples have had to try much, much longer, so it’s probably selfish of me to complain this early in :P but still. Sheesh.

Working late tonight to make up the time I missed for my appointment this morning. I think I need a little extra chocolate this afternoon…

CD2 - More Tests

I picked up a Clomid refill last night in preparation for this cycle, and then went in to the RE’s office this morning for an ultrasound. They found what looks like maybe some larger follicles on my left ovary, so they also took some blood to check my estrogen level. The doctor is going to review my chart and the bloodwork, and call this afternoon to let me know whether I should proceed with the Clomid tomorrow.  Fingers crossed that everything looks good – I’ll be sooooo frustrated if they ask me to sit out another cycle!!

Anyway, I also have an appointment for my tiny dog to get spayed and have some stubborn baby teeth pulled since they haven’t fallen out yet. This little adventure will be happening on St. Patrick’s Day, and I’m using a clinic down in Pueblo where my mom lives because they are SO much less expensive (like, $300 less) than any of the vets I can find up here. There’s an SCA event on the 15^th that’s down by my mom’s house anyway, so I’m taking my baby down there for the event, dropping her off with my mom, and will be without her for two days. My mom will take her in for me on Monday, and go pick her up, and then I’ll leave work early Monday to go get her. Poor little thing. She’ll be miserable for a while, and it’s so hard because you can’t exactly explain to her that I’m doing this for her benefit – all she knows is that her mama dropped her off at grandma’s and left – then grandma took her to a scary place where she got drugged and came out with painful stitches in her tummy. :( But it must be done. I guess it’s good practice for being a parent someday, LOL.

I’m trying to see if I can finish making a new wool dress for the SCA event. I have the bodice and lace-on sleeves done, but need to sew the skirt together, finish the seams, attach the skirt to the bodice, add skirt guards (decorative banding) and then make a couple dozen eyelets along the back by hand. All between now and the 15^th. Not sure whether I’ll make it or not… And there’s a whole overgown I’d love to do that I know I won’t complete in time.  Here's a little graphic of the under and over dresses that I'm planning:

But, the dress will be wool, and therefore warm, and the event is always freezing cold because it’s in a barn. If I have time, Kaitlin also wants me to make her a hat, and I’d like to make a warm wool cape or something for my little dog so she can stay warm too. ;)

So lots of things to keep me busy in the next couple weeks, thank goodness. I’m just hoping that the TWW will be equally full of distractions!

CD1 – Back In The Saddle Again

AF showed up bright and early this morning, hooray! So I called my RE – they want me to come in for an office visit tomorrow morning to do an ultrasound and be sure I don’t have leftover follicles from last cycle. (I doubt it – the only ones they found last month were tiny, thanks to that darned early ovulation…) Tonight I go pick up a Clomid refill from the pharmacy, which I’ll start taking on CD3 – Wednesday.

And I have another ultrasound appointment next week on Tuesday to see what follicles result. They wanted me in on CD11, but I have work meetings all day, so CD10 it is. I’m actually glad it’s on the earlier day... I’ll be so, SO disappointed if we miss ovulation again. I know I ovulated on CD7 last cycle, probably because my AF was screwed up and I was so sick – so I’m really hoping that this time we’re back to a nice healthy cycle where everything happens the way it’s supposed to.

Anyway, if this were to be the successful cycle our due date would be in December – which is probably our least desired kiddo birthday time. Murphy’s law, then, says that this attempt is likely to work. :P Oh, and the due date would be just a couple days after Kaitlin’s birthday – so then we’ll have to have unbirthday celebrations for both Kaitlin and kiddo on very separate days so that each of them gets their own day to be celebrated. :P

Gosh, even though we only skipped one cycle it feels like FOREVER since we last got to make a TTC attempt. :P

In the meantime, we picked up our engagement photos last weekend, so I thought I’d share them here. They turned out so cute! I love Kaitlin’s shiny ringlets… it took me like two hours to curl her hair up like that, LOL. It looks so pretty though!

(This one's my favorite)